Anyhows it's my time again and all 3 boys are fast asleep. Woot woot! I love this time of silence, especially after a whole day of dealing with customer at work, it's nice to have this time to myself. Though no wonder I end up sleep deprived... I should go to sleep cause I'll be woken up again in afew hours by lil nix!
Yesterday was Rut's baby shower so Lucas and I had abit of mother and child bonding making cupcakes.. He loves helping in the kitchen but often we forget about letting him get involved cause as most parents, we just want things done quickly and neatly blah blah but yes when I remember to slow myself down and not worry about the outcome soo much I do ask him to join and he absolutely loves it especially when he gets to lick all the left over mix. So all was going well and I remembered to take some picks along the way but I totally forgot to take pics of the end bit... Was pretty until we were in the car driving it over to the party... Nardy breaked and that was the end of our pretty lil work.
His comment ... It's either the cake or we crash... *Sigh*just as much as I wanted to blow my head off .. He was right so oh wells, the kids scoffed if up pretty or not, clean or not clean... 3 second rules right?? Hehe although in this case it was 3mins. Shhh the mums don't know.
We pigged out, played some games like all baby showers do then went home to pig out some more then complained of how fat I was! That's Sunday summed up.
Now going backwards one day, Saturday I got to spend a day with my sister and the boys for a day out at Ikea. It was really nice to have some time with each other even though we don't talk much. I guess we've always been like that... I don't really know why it is, maybe it's because we have 11 years gap difference and that I'm always too much older than she is, mindset wise, maybe I'm just too serious towards her but despite all that, I think we are kool.
I remember as a kid or teenager I should say, I use to resent her alot. I grew up as an only child and then to have a sister that I had to constantly baby sit because mum and dad were always working at the bakery. I was never allowed out and had to always look after her, dropping her off at the baby sitters house before school then picking her up afterwards and to top it off looking after her on the weekends too. I hated this role, hated the burden that was put on me and so I guess a part of me held back on the closeness of what normal sister bond should be.
I wonder if she remembers me locking her in the toilets as a lil kid when she was naughty and making her cry as a get back lol sorry for all those times... I too was just a growing teenager being resentful for the things i was not allowed too do whilst other kids were.
That was many years ago now so I'm really over it. They say blood is thicker than water and it is. We may not be the chummiest of sisters but there isn't anything I would not do for you.
I'll tell more of my child hood years later on...
So the festive season is coming up and there seems to be a million and one things happening all at once or one after another. The thought of having to run around finding 20 presents or so is already making me feel some what mental! I wanna be a kid again now and just receive gifts instead lol!
Anyways, I haven't been asking about favorite part of the day the last few days but was very happy to be hearing Lucas and Nardy bringing it up.
Yesterday Nardy mentioned his favorite part of every day or what he looks forward to the most is when he gets to ride his bike to and from work... He gave me a facial expression of the relaxed feeling he gets when doing so but I was not fast enough to snap it and when I asked him to re do the look, he refused... The only way I can describe it is orgasmatic hehe now picture it yourself! Hehe
Today he msg me to say he didn't have that look when he was riding home and by the time I saw that MSG and msged him back, he was sulking that I never have time to MSG him anymore.... Sorry babe! I really was working hard.. I keep getting distracted by lil things that I just don't have the time to look at the phone.
Lucas's favorite was going to school even though Aiden wasn't there and so he played by himself and then his fav was looking after Phoenix when he was sleeping and crying and him singing ba ba black sheep to stop him..
My fav was seeing Lucas trying to calm his brother down by singing ba ba black sheep... And when he was feeding phoenix yogurt.. You make mummy proud lil fella!
So to the final hours of glory Monday... May tuesday be an awesome one but for now...Sleep tight and don't let the bed bugs bite xox
Some pics from the last couple days... Lucas's reinactment of when Phoenix pulls his hair, his new cool glasses and yeah some randoms
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